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Generation 4     
Photos contributed by Jerry Dagenhart, click thumbnails to view full size
BRAXTON4 BARLOW (John3, John2, Thomas1) was born 08 October 1812 in Wilkes Co North Carolina and died 16 April 1880 in Wilkes Co North Carolina

He married CHARLOTTE LOTTIE CARLTON 02 January 1834 in Wilkes Co North Carolina, daughter of THOMAS CARLTON and his second wife, CATHERINE LIVINGSTON. She was born 12 March 1814.   Bible record shows the marriage date to be 27 January 1834, probably the filing date, while yet another record shows 21 January 1834

Most of the information for this family is from his Family Bible record, as published in the February 1968 issue of The Genealogical Society of the 'Original' Wilkes County

There is a deed in Caldwell County dated 10 October 1842 from John Barlow to Braxton Barlow for 120 acres of land of King's Creek. Braxton is also named in his father's will.
Braxton Barlow, c1845
Lottie Barlow, c1845
Lucinda Barlow
Remains of the chimney of the home where Braxton and Charlotte lived when they died on White's Creek in Goshen, Wilkes Co North Carolina >> 
Braxton and Charlotte Barlow, both taken c1845     
Lucinda Barlow, daughter of Braxton, on the right, person on the left is unidentified, possible Amanda Ferguson
Braxton Home
Bible Cover Page
Braxton Barlow Bible, page 1
Braxton Bible, page 2
Braxton Bible, page 3
Henry H. Barlow, birth and name
Poem by Braxton's daughter
Pages from BRAXTON BARLOW FAMILY BIBLE

Bible is housed in The James Larkin Pearson Library at The North Wilkesboro NC Community College
Braxton Barlow Cemetery
Lucinda Barlow Tombstone
Charlotte Barlow Tombstone
Braxton Barlow Tombstone
Doctor Barlow Tombstone
Robert Barlow Tombstone
Newly restored Braxton and Lottie Carlton Barlow Cemetery on Whites Creek in Goshen, Wilkes Co North Carolina
Starting at the right facing the graves:
Lucinda Barlow, Charlotte Barlow, Braxton Barlow, Doctor Barlow, and Robert Barlow
To see the cemetery contact Harrison Barlow in Lenoir or Mae Hartley in Ferguson.
Children of BRAXTON BARLOW and CHARLOTTE CARLTON are:
i. LUCINDA5 'LUCY' BARLOW, born 20 June 1835.    She never married
1 ii. THOMAS LEROY BARLOW, born 26 July 1836, and died 16 May 189_
2 iii. LARKIN CARLTON BARLOW, born 04 May 1838 Wilkes Co North Carolina, and died 27 May 1862, Hanover Co Virginia
3 iv.
HENRY HARRISON BARLOW born 25 March 1840 and 10 died July 1864 in Wilkes Co North Carolina, burial in Ferguson Family Cemetery on Pumpkin Creek near the old Jeremiah Ferguson homeplace.  
v.
JOHN BRAXTON BARLOW, born 05 December 1841, and died December 1862 Hanover Co Virginia. Apparently, he never married. According to Jerry Dagenhart, John was wounded on the same day his brother, Larkin Carlton was killed at Hanover Co Virginia, and died from complications of those wounds and typhoid fever in December, 1862.  Burial in Hollywood Cemetery, Richmond Virginia, no marker.  The marker shown here is a memorial marker in the Dagenhart Family Cemetery at Rosegreen, Cumberland Co Virginia.
John Braxton Barlow
John Braxton Barlow Marker
Letter from George Washington Walker to wife, Eliza Jane (Ferguson) Walker, (sister to Apaline Ferguson) depicting the death of John B. Barlow, transcribed below by Jerry Dagenhart.
Letter from GW Walker
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Hamilton Martin County NC    Feb the 27th 1863
Dear wife
I once more seet my self to write you a few lines in answer to your letter and to let you know how I ___. I am well at this time and I hope when those lines come to hand will find you and the children all well. I received your letter of the 15th the 26 and I glad to hear that you was all a live but I waS sorry to hearthat you had all been sick, but I hope you are all well by this time. I can't answer your letter as I wish to for I can't read it all I was sorry to hear that Leander Davis and  John B. Barlow and  Sidny Gearman was dead  you said that it  was thought that Lee was killed I wanted you to write what he had done or how they killed him you said ther had been a might big snow up ther. We had a snow her at the same time 9 inches deep. I thought about you and what a hard time you would see and was sorry for you. I would a ben glad to a been the __ a done the thing you had to do. I want you to write whether Y and H Barlow is going in the servis any more or not and if they are tell t hem to come here if they can. You said that uncle Jack had wrote to me and wanted to know what was reason I did not answer it. Tell him I never got it and would like to read a letter from him. I can say to you that I never wanted to see usbo___ in my life as I do at this time. The longer I stay away from you the worse I want to see you and the children and I am afraid that it will be a long time yet before I can come home if I ___ ___ ____ a letter a few day and I sent you five dollar in it and I will send you ten dollars in this for it is all the chance to get it at home. I want you to write how much corn you hav got and how corn and bacan is selling. I must close my letter for want of room. Write soon as you get this letter. Give my love and respects to all inquiring friends ____ ____. Only I remain your loving husband til death from G.H. Walker to E.J. Walker.
vi. JULIA C. BARLOW, born 25 July 1843.    She married ROBERT S. BRADLEY 18 June 1872
(Is the C. for Caroline?, perhaps she is who penned the poem in the Braxton Barlow Bible)
4 vii. MARTHA ADELAIDE BARLOW, born 12 July 1845
5 viii. WILLIAM FRANKLIN BARLOW, born 11 April 1848
ix. ROBERT F. BARLOW, born 17 May 1850
x. DOCTOR P. BARLOW, born 19 May 1853, and died 30 September 30, 1874
xi. MARY ANN BARLOW, born 13 October 1857     She married BENJAMIN FRANKLIN WILLIAMS. He was born 28 October 1844 and died 19 April 1921.
Generation 5
1.
THOMAS LEROY4 BARLOW (Braxton4, John3, John2, Thomas1) was born 26 July 1836, and died 16 May 189_

He married ELIZABETH APALINE FERGUSON on 24 December 1859.  She was born 04 September 1838, and died 31 January 1928. Both are buried in the Barlow Cemetery, Ferguson North Carolina.

Wilkes Co Marriage Records
Thomas Barlow and Elizabeth Ferguson
no date
Bond posted by Henry H. Barlow    Witnessed by: W. Mastin

Thomas Barlow and Appeline Ferguson
Thomas L. Barlow family
Thomas L. Barlow Home
Tombstone of Thomas L. Barlow
Tombstone of Apaline Barlow
Homestead of Thomas and Apaline Ferguson Barlow, near Ferguson, no longer standing
Tombstone of Thomas L. Barlow
Tombstone of Apaline Ferguson Barlow
Only known child of THOMAS BARLOW and ELIZABETH FERGUSON are:
i. LAURA5 BARLOW, born 14 October 1860 and died 27 November 1923.    She married MR. ANDREWS
 
2.
LARKIN CARLTON4 BARLOW (Braxton4, John3, John2, Thomas1) was born 04 May 1838 in Wilkes Co North Carolina and died in the Civil War on 27 May 1862 at Hanover Co Virginia, according to the Family Bible. Burial is in a mass grave near Slash Church, Hanover Co Virginia, no marker exists.  The stone shown is a memorial marker placed in the Dagenhart Cemetery, Rosegreen, Cumberland Co Virginia.

He married SUSANNA 'SUZIE' PINION/PENNELL on 20 December 1858, daughter of ELIAS PENNELL and POLLY WALKER.  The name was originally Pinion, but was changed to Pennell somewhere along the years according to Jerry Dagenhart.

Larkin C. Barlow
Jerry Dagenhart and Larkin Barlow
Susie Pennell Barlow, photo found in Larkins' pocket at his death
Larkin Barlow
Jerry Dagenhart, age 16, dressed in a Confederate uniform, looks just like his grandfather, Larkin Barlow
Susan Pennell Barlow
Larkin Barlow Tombstone
 Tombstone of Larkin Barlow >
Larkin' Death Record
Larkins final payroll
Susan appoints an attorney
Affidavit of Elias Pennell
MILITARY RECORDS of LARKIN BARLOW
Military Death Record of Larkin
Final payroll for Larkin
Susie's Attorney  /   Affidavit of Elias Pennell
Note:  After Larkin's death, Suzie married her first cousin, William Pennell aka Mean Bill Pinion, and they had children, as follows in the Family Bible of Susie Pennell Barlow Pinion:
Barlow-Pennell Bible Record
Children of Suzie Pinion Barlow and William F. Pennell
Joseph Ellis Carson Pennell (called Jasper) October 26 1866
Hiram Jefferson Pennell Borned October 19 1868
Julia Matilda Elizabeth Pennell borned September 1 1871
Andrew Bryson Pennell Borned June 13th 1875
James Solomon Keller Borned September 18 1879 (Husband of Julia Matilda Pennell)
Susie and William F. Pennell
Jerry Dagenhart writes:
It is hard to imagine that this braid and Valentine were fashioned in the late 1850's when Suzie Pinion (Pennell) was still dating Larkin Carlton Barlow.
People used to make their Valentines.  I was told there was a poem that went with the Valentine, sadly no original handwritten copy exists and it no doubt has lost verse over the years.  Suzie no doubt learned the poem as a writing exercise in school as I have seen pieces of it written on photos in letters and in other families in NC.   I can still hear Tom Dison and Jose Dison Brown singing the little poem they were taught by their Mother.
Valentine Braid
'Suzies Lament'
When this you see remember me for this you can see when you can't see me,
Remember me and forget me not.
Accept this braid for with Love it was wrought.
Though Miles apart we my be, like this braid my heart is ever with thee.
And if the grave shall be my bed remember
me when I am Dead.
I imagine that as Larkin Carlton Barlow lay on the battlefield at Hanover Court House in Virginia, and his lifes blood ebbed away, the words of this poem and the face of his beloved Suzie were his last thoughts. I have this Valentine and several other braids of Suzie's granddaughters hair in a frame.
Children of LARKIN BARLOW and SUSIE PENNELL are:
i. MARTHA ANN5 BARLOW, born 20 October 1859 and died 29 April 1930, burial in Kings Creek Baptist Church Cemetery, Caldwell Co North Carolina
She married WILLIAM F. JARVIS on 01 November 1886 in Wilkes Co North Carolina.

ii.

MARY JANE BARLOW, was born in 06 May 1861, and died 1941
She married WILLIAM JEFFERSON DYSON in 1879.   He was born in 1860, and died 1949.   Both are buried in White Plains Baptist Church Cemetery in Alexander Co North Carolina
Their daughter, MARTHA ADALINE DYSON married LLOYD BOWMAN in 1904. Martha and Lloyd had a daughter, ANNIE LOU BOWMAN, who married EDDIE LEE DAGENHART.    They are the parents of JERRY LYNN DAGENHART of Farmville Virginia.
Martha Jane and Mary Ann Barlow
Martha and Wm Jarvis
Jarvis Family
Martha Dyson Tombstone
< JARVIS
Dyson Family
Dyson Family
Dyson Tombstone
DYSON >

Martha Ann and Mary Jane Barlow wearing dresses made by their grandmother, Charlotte Carlton Barlow.
Wm. F. Jarvis and Martha Ann Barlow
Wm. F. Jarvis, Martha Ann Barlow Jarvis w/children, left to right: Beth Jarvis Livingston, Finley Jarvis, Richard Jarvis, Lena Jarvis Teague, and Rosetta Jarvis Livingston
Tombstone of Martha Ann Barlow Jarvis

William Jefferson Dyson and Mary Jane Barlow Dyson, w/children: John sitting on fathers lap, and Ellon sitting on mothers lap
Mary Jane Barlow Dyson with sons, John Larkin and Marcus Coleman Dyson
Tombstone of William Jefferson and Mary Jane Barlow Dyson

 
3.
HENRY HARRISON4 BARLOW (Braxton4, John3, John2, Thomas1) was born 25 March 1840, and died 10 July 1864 in Wilkes Co North Carolina, burial in  the Ferguson Family Cemetery on Pumpkin Creek near the old Jeremiah Ferguson Homeplace

He married NANCY AMANDA FERGUSON.     After Henry died, Amanda married SMITH FERGUSON WALKER
Henry Harrison Barlow Tombstone
Wilkes Co Marriage Records
H. H. Barlow and Amanda Ferguson
24 December 1861
Performed by: J.H. Brown     Witnessed by: W. Maston
Nancy Amanda Ferguson
Children of HENRY BARLOW and NANCY FERGUSON are:
6 i. THOMAS5 LEROY BARLOW, born c1864
 
4.
MARTHA ADELAIDE4 BARLOW (Braxton4, John3, John2, Thomas1) was born 12 July 1845

She married REVEREND MILTON MCNEIL / MCNEILL, on 24 December 1862.  The son of JOSEPH MCNEIL and MISS WILSON, he was born 08 January 1846, and died after 1925.
Martha Adelaide Barlow McNeill
From McNeil Genealogy:  Rev. McNeill has been a Baptist minister in Wilkes Co. for more than forty-five years, during which time he has held many positions of trust and responsibility in the county. He has been Sheriff of Wilkes Co., Clerk of Superior Court for twelve years, and for past twenty-one years has been deputy clerk of the Federal Court at Wilkesboro.
Original photo of Martha is housed at the Pearson Library.  Milton McNeil's sister was James Larkin Pearson's mother.   James Larkin Pearson, poet laureate of NC, preserved many Barlow heirlooms and his daughter donated them, to the library named in his honor
Children of MARTHA BARLOW and REVEREND MCNEIL are:
i. AMERICA5 MCNEILL, born 10 June 1863.  She married T.H. WEST, and they lived in Banners Elk, North Carolina
ii. SARAH JANE MCNEILL, born 05 May 1866.  She married MR. PRIVETTE, and they lived in Raleigh, North Carolina
iii. JULIA MCNEILL, born 17 August, 1869.  She married J.B. COUNCIL, and they lived in Jefferson Co North Carolina
iv. JAMES WILLIAM MCNEILL, born 03 February 1872, and died 07 January 1924.  He married ANNA GERTRUDE JOHNSON, and they lived in Washington D.C.
v. JESSE MILTON MCNEILL, born 08 August 1874.  He married LOLA VANNOY
vi. ROBERT HAYES MCNEILL, born 25 April 1877, a prominent attorney in Washington DC.  He married CORA B. BROWN.
vii. MARTHA 'MATTIE' CHARLOTTE5 MCNEIL , born 10 May 1879.  She married JOHN C. HOLBROOKE
viii. ROSE V. MCNEILL, born 15 March 1883.  She married JOHN R. JONES, and they lived in N. Wilkesboro, North Carolina
ix. NELLIE BLANCH MCNEILL, born 05 March 1877.  She married C.C. DIMMETTE, and they lived in Washington D.C.
 
5.
WILLIAM FRANKLIN4 BARLOW (Braxton4, John3, John2, Thomas1) was born 11 April 1848 and died 13 June 1921.

He married MARTHA PATSY DULA on 08 October 1871. She was born on 12 August 1846 to THOMAS DULA and ANNA TRIPLETT, and died 25 April 1920.   Both are buried in Beaver Creek.
Wm F. Barlow
WIlliam and Patsy Barlow
William and Patsy Barlow   (2nd photo in possession of Pat McNeil)

Wm F. Barlow Tombstone
Martha P. Dula Barlow Tombstone
Tombstones of William and Martha Barlow
Children of WILLIAM BARLOW and MARTHA DULA are:        ----not listed in order----
i. ROXIE6 BARLOW married WILLIAM AUSTIN
ii. LOTTIE ANN BARLOW, born 01 March 1877.     She married  EDWARD HILL MCNEIL on 15 February 1895
iii. MATTIE BARLOW married ARTHUR HENDRICK
iv. EVERETT BARLOW married DORA MYERS
v. JOHN BARLOW married VICTORIA HARRIS
vi. WILLIAM THOMAS BARLOW, born 01 December 1873.    He married JULIE ANN GWYN
vii. DOCKY BARLOW, died at about age 7
Generation 6
6. THOMAS LEROY6 BARLOW (Henry5, Braxton4, John3, John2, Thomas1) was born about 1864.

He married SARAH E. MURPHY
Thomas and Sarah Barlow
Thought to be Thomas Barlow
Thomas and Sarah         Thought to be Thomas Barlow >
Children of THOMAS BARLOW and SARAH MURPHY are:
i. ROMILUS LEE7 BARLOW, born c1884.   He married LURA IVALEE DULA
ii. MARGARET LOU ELLEN BARLOW, born 13 June 1886.    She married CLYDE MILAM
iii. CARRIE BARLOW, born 26 November 1893.    She married WILLIAM DULA
iv. WILLIAM HARRISON BARLOW, born 24 November 1896.    He married NORA LOUELLA WALLACE
 
Just for fun, and to give life to our kinfolk, Jerry Dagenhart has contributed the following stories by written by himself from oral tradition handed down by the grandchildren of Suzie Pinion Barlow Pennell


The Legend of Mean Bill


Let me start by saying I do not wish to offend anyone by sharing the Mean Bill tales, I simply want to make sure they are not forgotten. He is my ancestor and therefore a blood relation so do not think I am telling the story of someone elses family. Let me also explain that Pinion was the original spelling of Pennell and the two names were used interchangeably before the Civil War.

Mean Bill, William F. Pinion/Pennell was not a bad looking man in fact rather handsome, he was tall and had dark features and he was rather intelligent.

William F. Pinion was born the son of Joseph and Mary Bouthe Pinion. He and his brother Archie set their sites on marrying the beautiful daughters of their Uncle Ellis and Aunt Polly. Courtship was begun and soon the two men had permission to woo their cousins. Priscilla Pinion and Suzie Pinion were celebrated beauties in their neighborhood  rivaled only by their cousin Mary Ann Pinion.  It is easy to see why the Pinion brothers were smitten with them.

Engagements were announced and all was well. Then one day an invitation came for a church social in Boomer just over the mountain where some Walker relations lived.   Suzie and Priscilla and sister Anna and their mother made the journey on horseback. Present at the gathering were the handsome Barlow brothers, sons of Charlotte and Braxton Barlow. Larkin Carlton Barlow was immediately drawn to Suzie Pinion, in fact it is said he could not take his eyes off of her.

After the social, Larkin took the liberty of writing to Suzie and professing his love. He also came to court her and it was not long before Suzie felt a similar admiration for Larkin. She broke of her engagement with cousin Bill and accepted the proposal of the handsome young man from Boomer.  Bill was furious and fled to the family hunt lodge for many weeks and could not be consoled.

Larkin and Suzie were married and were blessed with two beautiful daughters, Martha and Mary Jane.

When the Civil War broke out, Larkin joined along with his brothers and the Robinett’s and others.  Bill Pinion and his brothers also joined the cause.  It was said that Bill said ”If he was laid in his grave by a Yankee that at least his broken heart would beat no more.”

Tragedy struck at the Battle of Hanover Courthouse and Larkin Barlow fell dead as did four of the Robinette boys, and brother John B. was wounded and captured and would die later in a Richmond Virginia Hospital.

Suzie was devastated and felt she had brought about Larkin’s death by marrying him; she felt they were being punished for hurting Bill so, after all she had been promised to Bill.

William F. Pinion returned from the war and he soon learned of Suzie’s widowhood and so he plotted his revenge.

He started courting his widowed cousin and brought her wild game and presents and brought candy and presents for her young daughters as well.

Suzie truly believed that Bill had forgiven her and she soon returned his affections and it was not long before they were wed.

After winning Suzie for his own he became extremely jealous and made her wear a bonnet that covered her face whenever they were in church or in town.  He also treated her and the children very poorly.  I have been told many times he would be served first and eat two thirds of the cornbread and chicken and whatever was left over could be divided between Suzie and the girls, many times Suzie did without so her girls would have enough to eat, he would also put cornmeal on the stoop to make sure Suzie and the girls had not left the cabin and that no one had been in while he was gone.  He was sure a man would come and steal Suzie away.

I will continue later with The Legend of Booger or Haint Holler and the unbaked cornbread.

I want to take my time and tell these stories correctly.   In case you haven't figured it out Bill was the most jealous man in the Brushy Mountains and was a very cruel husband and stepfather.

Grandma Mary Jane Barlow Dison/Dyson always referred to the Pennells as the”Mean old Pinions” because of Bill.    More to Follow

Now again I want to make sure everyone understands I love my Pennell family but the stories about Bill are too interesting not to tell.

If you have relatives in the North Carolina foothills you are no doubt well aware that chestnut fed hogs and cornbread in addition to home canned garden truck, and wild game were the steady diet of our ancestors along with preserved and dried fruits and molasses and honey.  It has already been said that Bill was mean and jealous, but he was also greedy and stingy when it came to food.

On one occasion he was going to town with Suzie, and the girls were given breakfast and a list of chores to do and then Bill reminded them that they would all eat when the adults returned and the two girls had better not mess with any of the food rations or he would know.  He kept a careful measure of the cornmeal and a constant inventory of the larder or pantry.  Bill and Suzie set about their trip to Cross Keys to trade and Martha and Mary began their Saturday chores. There was wood to chop and cleaning of the cabin and several other tasks Bill had set down for them to do.  The girls liked to get their work done in a hurry and then play in the cool pine shade with their mothers doll and tea set and other items she had brought from her home when she married their father.  There was also a rag doll named Lottie made by their Grandmother Lottie Carlton Barlow.  About 1 o'clock the girls were finished with their chores and set out to play.  They were always very careful with their toys as they knew there would not be anymore to replace them if they were broken.   They did not often have the luxury of playtime and when they did they savored it.  After an hour of “maginery” tea and tea cakes hunger set in and the girls decided they could make a few hoe cakes and Bill would never miss the cornmeal.   (flat piece of bread baked on the hearth in the coals)   The girls put the toys back in their mothers chest and carefully got out enough meal to make two small hoe cakes.   Martha heated the iron skillet and put in some lard whilst Mary Jane mixed the batter. Then fear struck them both for they could hear a wagon in the distance and the whistling tune Bill always whistled as he returned from town.  Quickly the girls ran to the back door and Martha hurriedly cleaned the skillet whilst Mary Jane quickly dumped the batter in a hollow stump and then washed the bowl.  The girls had everything in place and were darning socks when the wagon reached the front yard.

Bill appeared pleased that the girls had minded him. Then he went to the pantry and noticed the meal bag was not tied the way he left it. He could not be sure if any was gone but it was not the way he left it so when Suzie cooked their dinner Bill advised the girls that he would have their share of the cornbread as they had not minded his instructions.  Bill never found the unbaked bread, but the girls were punished all the same.  Bill took the beautiful dresses their grandmother Charlotte Barlow had made for them to wear to church and traded them at Cross Keys the next time they went to town .

I was also often told that as the girls grew older if they wanted to go to town or to a party or social they would have to give up their cornbread for a week to get Bill's approval.   This continued until the girls were old enough to marry and leave home.

Suzie gave Bill five children: Priscilla Ann, Joseph Ellis Carson, Hiram Jefferson, Julie Matilda Elizabeth, and Andy Bryson Pennell.


How Booger Hollar Got Its Name (Another Mean Bill Tale)


When Suzie was expecting her first child by Mean Bill she was in the final days of her pregnancy and had to take to her bed.  Her sisters came and helped out as much as Bill would allow and Martha and Mary Jane were regular little nurses.

The night came quickly on the day her water broke and so did the fierce storm outdoors. Bill was to go get the midwife. With each crash of thunder Suzie's pain came closer together yet she was concerned for poor Bill out on such a night.  Finally Suzie asked Martha if Bill was back yet.  Bill answered before Martha could say word, "Bill ain’t back yet because Bill ain't left yet".

Mary Jane took a pine knot and lit it and her Moma’s old umbrella and lit out for Grandma Polly.  Bill cursed her as she left as she was only 5 or 6 years old.  She knew the way to Ella's and Polly's even in the dark and the lightening helped her see the trail.

When Ellis and Polly returned (they left Mary Jane at their cabin in dry clothes that had once been her Mothers), the Baby was coming.   The cord was around the little girls neck and she did not live.  Polly never said a word but Aunt Martha never forgot the look her dark eyes flashed at her nephew and son in law Bill.  The baby was to have been named Priscilla Anne for two of Suzie's sisters but as it did not live it was never named.

With the first light of day, Bill took off. Ellias and his brother Uncle Joseph, (the two grandpas) fashioned a little pine coffin and Polly and Aunt Prissy bathed and cleaned and dressed the pretty dark-haired baby in clothes that they had made weeks before.  When Aunt Sallie arrived with little Mary Jane they saw the casket set out in the front room and Mary Jane cried her little heart out.  They waited til mid-afternoon but still Bill did not return so Uncle Archie suggested that they should bury the child near its kinfolk at the Reid Burial Ground and he would give the appropriate sermon. Suzie could not leave her bed and Aunt Sallie her baby sister stayed with her as the family carried their precious little burden to the burial ground near the Reid homeplace.  Thomas Reid and his sons had already dug the grave very near the spot where Ellis and Polly’s sons were buried (baby boys who also never lived to be grown).  A field stone was erected over the grave and it is said Uncle Archie gave a beautiful sermon and prayer.

Evening came and still no Bill. Uncle John and Uncle Archie set out to look for him.  Where had Bill been?  He had walked to Cross Keys and bought a jug of consolation and was now in the hollar near his home just beyond Uncle Jonas Whites and was quite drunk.  He muttered out loud they can all blame me if they see fit but the baby would have died anyway. It was meant to be.  Just then the squal of a newborn child pierced the black still night. Bill fell to his knees and started to pray, but again the babe squalled out.  He jumped to his knees and began a fast run toward his cabin dropping the jug in the creek where it hit a rock and broke.  When he reached the cabin he was pale white and fell through the door.  He looked like a mad man covered with mud and a wild look in his eyes.   He crawled to where Suzie lay in their bed and grasped her hand and begged her to forgive him, he then said our child never cried when it was born, but I have heard her cry tonight in the hollar where we used to walk when we were courting.  He mumbled on about the crying babe and some of the men who had returned from looking for him got him to his feet and took him to the porch and cleaned him up and then got him to the cot in the front room.

When morning came Bill awakened with a start and remembered the events of the night before. The neighbor and family women were about the business of feeding the folks who had stayed all night.  Bill grabbed a plate of food and tore off without a word to anyone and no one followed him.  He reached the hollar and traced his muddy prints to the spot where he had heard the baby cry. He then surmised it had been the spirits in the jug and not any other kind.  Then in the light of morning the cries wailed out again he fell to his knees and started to pray, before he could finish his prayer for forgiveness he glanced skyward and noticed that two tall tulip poplars were rubbing each other and as they did so they sounded exactly like a young child crying or wailing.  Bill sat down and laughed and realized it had been the liquor and his guilt that had played tricks on him. He named the hollar 'Booger Hollar' and to this day it is still called that and he would often frighten his children by telling them not to walk though the hollar on their sisters birthday or she would cry out to them.

Now this story was told to me by three separate sources and only varied slightly, so I believe it is true however sad it may be.  For those who do not know mountain lingo a booger or a haint is a ghost or spirit.


Mean Bill and The Halloween Haint


Most of you know mountain people refer to ghosts as haints / haunts and spirits.

On Halloween when Uncle Jeff and Uncle Carson were teenagers they had been invited to a corn shucking and barn dance and their father, Mean Bill adamantly refused to let them go he said "Too much meaness gets done on Halloween and I ain't having my boys out and about to get accused of any mischief"

The boys were plenty mad so they hatched a plan, they jumped out the loft window of their parents cabin and took old clothes from the barn loft trunk. (Clothes that had belonged to Suzies first husband, Larkin Barlow) and they made a scarecrow and placed it on the porch in front of the window. Presently they began to moan "Bill, Bill Penyuuunnn!!!!!!   Come out and meet your match"  Soon Bill aroused and in the moonlight he could see the shadowy stranger in the window.  Bill called out "Who are you and what are you about this time a night?"; the figure did not answer.

Bill got down the gun from over the mantle and he fired right through the window and the figure crumpled over.  Bill replaced the gun and went back to bed.  Suzie exclaimed Bill did you see who it was?  Bill replied, "No but we shall see in the morning cause I shot him and he's a laying on the porch floor."

Jeff and Carson removed the dummy and returned the straw and the clothes to the barn and they took a rabbit from one of the rabbit gums (a homemade rabbit trap) and cut its throat and smeared blood all over the porch, and then skinned and dressed the rabbit and put it in salt water on the back porch with the ones they had dressed earlier the day before.

The boys didn't get to the dance but they had a good laugh at their Daddy’s expense and when word of the incident made its way around the neighborhood, you can rest assured nobody ever came calling at Mean Bills after dark.


Suzie and the Trousers (another Mean Bill story)


Now let me stress again that Mean Bill is not only my step great grandfather but he is my close relative as his wife was his first cousin.  I proudly hang his picture on the wall regardless of the tales told about him. He is such an interesting character and I am so grateful so much has been told about him.

Now it has already been said that Bill was a jealous man and he often made Suzie wear a bonnet with a long bill over her face in church and he made her and the children walk behind him when they went anywhere, so he could block her pretty face from oncoming glances.

On one Saturday morning a trading trip was planned and the wagon needed mending so Bill set out on foot. He sprinkled meal on the front and back stoop and told Susie not to let any strangers in.

Suzie went about her chores and Bill set out for Cross Keys (a trading post where current Hwy 127 enters the Lenoir road).

After a while Suzie remembered Bill's Sunday trousers needed mending,   Try as she might she could not find a bright enough spot in the cabin to sew. So she took her basket and carefully hopped over the trail of corn meal and sat in the porch rocker and commenced to darning the pants.  The children were inside playing quietly.

Bill was very near home and suddenly he felt a jealous streak and some how sensed something was not right at home.  As he approaches the hill above the cabin he caught a glimpse of Suzie and a mans trousers.  He saw red and was shaking with anger.  He crept up like a panther and pounced down on the porch dropping his parcel and sack.  Well now I caught you, and where is the man that wears these pants.

Suzie felt angry and was tired of the jealous fits so she said, "Oh he's right close by, why if you look in the winder lite you might even see him." Bill rushed to the window and saw only his on reflection in the wavy glass. "Do you see my gentleman caller Bill?"  Bill then took a closer look and he could only see the children in the floor playing.  Then Suzie confessed, "Well you caught me this time Bill, red handed, you caught me a mending your old Sunday pants!!!"  Bill stomped off and found his jug at the spring and did not come back to the house until supper was on the table.


Grandma Suzie

The mud was still wet on her crooked willow cane;
When the angels bid her go in the gentle falling rain.

Her body was bent and worn from a life of woe;
By a counting of years she was still considered young.
She had faded like a flower that is not allowed to grow;
Where the sun’s light warms it and life’s songs are sung.

Bill had been her husband, her master and her foe;
Scarce could one believe he had ever been her beau.
None of that mattered now for the Angels bid her go.


This day had been like all the rest, she washed and dressed
And prayed that her children would be blessed.
Her hand and face were drawn from the ravage of a stroke
Yet she knew she must prepare a breakfast before “his highness” woke.

With pain and dread she placed her bonnet upon her head,
And limped toward the cabin door.
She grasped her faithful cane and leaned upon it once more.

Outside it was raining and the winter wind was cold,
She gathered up the needed wood and headed toward the door.

She faltered but a moment for a voice was in the wind.
It was the voice of Larkin whispering ”I’ll see you once again”

Once inside she tended the coals and rebuilt her fire.
The mud was still wet on her crooked willow cane;
When she placed it in the corner and returned to fan the flame.

She sat in her rocker “I shall rest a bit before he wakes”
She reached in her apron and opened the little frame.
That held a cherished image, Larkin Barlow was his name.

Here eyes filled with tears and she clasped it to her breast.
Then her trials were over as she labored her last breath.
The mud was still wet on her crooked willow cane;
When Bill tried to wake her with harsh words and disdain.
His face was blank and pallid when he realized she was gone;
He thought back to the time when a fiddle had played their wedding song.
”Have I really spent my entire life doing this woman wrong?”

Bill walked to his neighbors almost in a trance;
Fixed in his mind was the image of Suzie,
the ”Belle of the Ellendale“ dance.

The mud was still wet on her crooked willow cane,
As her children gathered round her stricken with grief and pain.
Mary Jane was the first to see what was in her mother’s hand,
Carefully she retrieved it, the handsome image of the man;

She recalled being told how in a battle he had died;
She also recalled that with the telling her Mother always cried.

Mary Jane placed the portrait in the pocket of her dress;
She would claim it as her inheritance if required to confess.

The neighbors came as neighbors do and carried out the tasks;
They prepared Suzie for the journey to the land that always lasts.
John Dison made the coffin and Uncle Archie said a prayer;
The Reid sisters bathed her and carefully combed her hair.

The mud was still wet on “her” crooked willow cane
When Mary Jane bore it home in the falling rain.

She placed it by the chimney in her own cabin home;
And never in her entire life had she felt so very alone.
She reached in her pocket and retrieved the portrait case;
She placed it on the fireboard and gazed at his handsome face.

“Is my mother with you at last and is she safe and warm?”
Jeff held her in his arms and comforted her as she cried;
And that’s just the way it was when Grandma Suzie died
Graphics  by Rhio
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