January 2001 Roots and Branches of the Barlow Family
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Hello
Cuzzins'
Well, the new millenium has begun. I am expecting this to be the break- through year in which we can locate our family origins, in my case, the goal is to find where John Barlow came to America from, and if Lydia was indeed a Bryant. Also to prove or disprove that Flora Anne, wife of George Wash- ington Barlow, was a Byrd or a Hilton, or perhaps some other name I haven't even researched as yet. Stranger things have happened. I hope that you all had a wonderful Christmas, and better weather than we have had in Arkansas ... the ice storms this year has been hard on the entire state, but thankfully, my home was only without power for 3 days. The worst thing that happened to me, is that my son, Dustin, who is a law student in Boston, Massachusetts, flew home for Christmas, but was "iced" in almost immediately at his in-laws ... and I never got to see him on this trip. It had been a year since our last visit ... and I guess it will be another year yet. My 'almost' four year old grandson, Tyler was iced in with his mother, but Santa Claus came, and I had bought all the food for a feast, but nobody could get to my house to eat it. So Tyler had Christmas, which was the most important part for me... and we have our health and a new year of prosperity to look forward to. As promised, this month I will concentrate on the Hilton family..........The research has been contributed by many, as you will see on the Hilton page. |
Please feel free to
contact each other, .... and
if mistakes can be corrected, or material added .. be sure to contact
me also so that I might update my own records. With the month
being so busy with preparations being made for the Christmas that
'almost was', I didn't get as much done as I would like to have...but
we have
the rest of our lives to update. On yet another subject, Lora Beth as some of you know, has been working with Charlotte Barlow Farthing in Hazlehurst, Mississippi to take the steps necessary to have the Old Pleasant Valley Cemetery cleaned up, it has long ago been abandoned. I went there myself with Lora Beth and Charlotte after our family reunion in October, and it is a mess...I wandered around a bit and could see a few tombstones, but was afraid of snakes so I didn't hang around long. Following is a letter I just received from Lora Beth, and I noted she has sent out the same letter to some of you also, but I am adding it to this newsletter so that other interested parties might have a chance to contribute, as well as sending a copy to the Mississippi genealogy mailing list.
Lora Beth has mentioned the "known" surnames of our kinfolk buried there, but all of us should take an interest preserving the past, regardless of the surnames, if it is in our power. I pray you will all take the time to write a letter and mail it to the proper authorities. Below is a rough draft of a letter prepared by Ben Sessions, you might use as a guide to writing your own.
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| Family Happenings
...... I haven't heard from many of you during this busy holiday season, with news of family..but I did hear from Lora Beth that her mother spent a couple of days in the hospital over the Christmas holidays, and is still not doing real well, Lora Beth has gone to spend a few days with her at this time. Clara Mae Barlow Gray, the youngest daughter of George Washington Barlow, Jr. and Minerva Hilton died December 21, 2000. She was 98. I believe she lived in Texas, and have searched the internet for an obituary, but without success. Perhaps one of you have a copy of it that I might post. Luther Hart writes of his health: I went to my back surgeon yesterday and he said my healing process was at least 2 months ahead of what he was expecting, but still take care..... He
also sends an update to the family record: |
Thank you all for voting for our site, I was a bit late in the asking, but we go on. Remember to vote every month by clicking on the Vote button on the homepage, so that we are eligible for the monthly award. The Barlow Clearinghouse was just accepted in the American Local History Network's Surname Sites. I think that is quite an honor. As we progress with the Mississippi Kinfolks site, I will submit an application to have that added to the proper category. As you wander thru the web and find sites that can have submissions made, think of the Clearinghouse and add our URL in the proper categories. We need to get as many folks involved as possible, and find our family. On another note, it always gets me excited when someone writes to tell me they found their families because of information posted on the Clearinghouse, most of whom are already deceased, but I was just informed by a woman in Virginia that she has found her 4 sisters, all separated and put up for adoption as children...simply because of her postings on the Clearinghouse. The sad part is that the mother of the children just recently passed away, and did not get to meet any of her children. I have several photos to add to the pages, mostly of tombstones that I have photographed over the past few years, but at present, I can't get my scanner to work, so I will get them up when possible. I do hope you all enjoy this month's issue, which concentrate's on the Hilton family. I could work for months on this, and have not posted all I have yet, but time is not on my side at present. So, I will add more as I can. Most of what I have are cemetery records, etc. A wealth of information can be found just by researching cemetery records, I have updated the Hilton lineage considerably just by doing that. I did cheat a bit in that I used the Hilton book to supply the information on the Solomon A. Hilton family, as I did not have any information other than that he was a son of William Isaac Hilton. I have made up a folder of current newsletters and the pages of lineage included with each and sent it to Ardeth Barlow in Florence Mississippi, and asked that she will put it in the library at Simpson Co so that other's might find us. I will send the new letters each month and have asked her to add them. So .... enjoy the Hilton's, and please, don't be shy, or afraid of hurting my feelings by letting me know where information is incorrect, and if you can add more, or if you have any documents, ie .. marriage license, census pages, pensions, will's, etc..., for any of the families intermarried into the Barlow and allied families, they would certainly be appreciated. One thing I would dearly love to have are the older photographs, even if you can't identify them all. Someone may be able to. Go thru Mom's and Grandma's photo albums and see what you might come up with. I only wish I had family up here on my father's side so that I could do that. While they're alive, see if they can still identify some of those unmarked photographs, and label them for the future. I did retrieve copies of pictures at our last reunion from Frances Barlow Berry, and have will have them available at some point on the Clearinghouse, when I can get the scanner to work again. Any computer guru's out there? One of our "Burt" cousin's recently sent me this...and it sure brought back memories, I wanted to share it with my children, and then realized, they won't have a clue what it's about, so instead, I will pass it on to those of you who can appreciate it as much as I did. Oh, if I could just go back! |
| Close your eyes ........... and go back ........ Before
the Internet or the Mac, Way, way back ........ I'm
talkin' about hide and go seek at dusk. Mother,
May I? Wait ......
Bedtime,
Climbing trees, Cops
and Robbers Sittin
on the curb
Being
tickled to death I ain't finished yet ..... What
about the girl that had the big bubbly hand writing? Remember
when..there were two types of sneakers for girls and boys When
nearly everyone's mom was at home when the kids got there.
When
girls neither dated nor kissed until late high school, if then.
When
you got your windshield cleaned, oil checked, and gas pumped,
When laundry detergent had free glasses, dishes or towels hidden inside the box. When
any parent could discipline any kid, or feed him or use him to carry
groceries, When
it was considered a great privilege to be taken out to dinner
When
they threatened to keep kids back a grade if they failed
When
being sent to the principal's office was nothing compared to the fate
that awaited Decisions
were made by going "eeny-meeny-miney-mo."
The
net on a tennis court was the perfect height to play volleyball
It
was unbelievable that dodgeball wasn't an Olympic event. It
was a big deal to finally be tall enough to ride the "big people"
rides at the amusement park. Abilities
were discovered because of a "double-dog-dare" "Oly-oly-oxen-free"
made perfect sense War
was a card game
.... If you can remember most of these .... Then you have really LIVED!!!! |
See ya next month
Love ya, Susan